Okay so many families in India want a boy child.I honestly have no clue why...This practice is more widespread in North-India.Anyways my parents don't have a boy.Its just me and my sister.So one day my dad actually told me that "God din't give him a boy child because he wasn't him to suffer" i mean what the hell does he mean by that?? He was probably joking,i know i mean he's a really nice man he wouldn't have wanted me to get hurt or anything but it hurt me ,real bad. But at least he's not the kind to kill a girl child or anything.Okay so after he told me this i asked him what the hell is something so special in a guy that is not there in a girl and he tells him nothing they are equal but then i have heard a lot of people saying a guy is physically stronger than a girl.But what does he use that for?? to rape girls? then i hardly think that is an asset to be proud of. Oh and another thing in India is that for the wedding ceremony the girls parents not only pay for the entire ceremony they can give the groom dowry and really expensive gifts and the groom shamelessly DEMANDS.So if any of you girls are in a situation like this don't do it.I know i am no one to tell you that but then if you marry a guy like that he would not have any respect for you or your family.So ask people like him to go to hell.. you are worth much more!
Thursday 3 January 2013
A boy baby
Okay so many families in India want a boy child.I honestly have no clue why...This practice is more widespread in North-India.Anyways my parents don't have a boy.Its just me and my sister.So one day my dad actually told me that "God din't give him a boy child because he wasn't him to suffer" i mean what the hell does he mean by that?? He was probably joking,i know i mean he's a really nice man he wouldn't have wanted me to get hurt or anything but it hurt me ,real bad. But at least he's not the kind to kill a girl child or anything.Okay so after he told me this i asked him what the hell is something so special in a guy that is not there in a girl and he tells him nothing they are equal but then i have heard a lot of people saying a guy is physically stronger than a girl.But what does he use that for?? to rape girls? then i hardly think that is an asset to be proud of. Oh and another thing in India is that for the wedding ceremony the girls parents not only pay for the entire ceremony they can give the groom dowry and really expensive gifts and the groom shamelessly DEMANDS.So if any of you girls are in a situation like this don't do it.I know i am no one to tell you that but then if you marry a guy like that he would not have any respect for you or your family.So ask people like him to go to hell.. you are worth much more!
Here's my story..
Servery shows that about 70% of indian women are sexually harassed . I have had my share.No,not a big serious one but yes groping if that's what you call it.I was only in 8th just 8th and i was coming back from tuition.So this guy comes and asks me for some address.So i tell him i don't know then he like prosperously touches my boobs while taking the envelops back.GOD.. i din't even realize it.I was so young.Then he did it again a couple of times you know with the excuse of taking back the envelops and stuff.
Then in the end he told me their was some kind of insect in my shirt and then he like shook the down partof my shirt near my you know private area.That's when i understood what this was all about.So the moment i understood i bitch slapped him.oh yeah! then i screamed and before the security came i took my sandals,slapped him as hard as i can,i know it must have hurt real bad(serves him right),and took the security what happened and so he is probably in jail now.I'm pretty sure he was arrested.
The point of me telling you this that its not your fault that you're molested or eve-teased.Stop trying to keep this to yourself.Tell people.Humiliate him.Its only then that those bastards would learn a lesson. I so hope that idiot burns in hell but in the meantime i.e. the time on earth that he's got left,i made his life hell.
Then in the end he told me their was some kind of insect in my shirt and then he like shook the down partof my shirt near my you know private area.That's when i understood what this was all about.So the moment i understood i bitch slapped him.oh yeah! then i screamed and before the security came i took my sandals,slapped him as hard as i can,i know it must have hurt real bad(serves him right),and took the security what happened and so he is probably in jail now.I'm pretty sure he was arrested.
The point of me telling you this that its not your fault that you're molested or eve-teased.Stop trying to keep this to yourself.Tell people.Humiliate him.Its only then that those bastards would learn a lesson. I so hope that idiot burns in hell but in the meantime i.e. the time on earth that he's got left,i made his life hell.
Tuesday 1 January 2013
WOMEN
In India,often the rape victim is blamed for the rape.They question her character,say she brought this upon herself by going alone at night.Even the office investigating the case often says that the victim is of loose character , was going to a nightclub and partying with her boyfriend.... etc.
SO WHAT?? The victim could even be a prostitute,she could even walk naked on the road but that does not give anybody the right to rape her.So stop questioning the character of the victim...
Hang the criminals/rapists instead.... give them the punishment they deserve instead of the accusing the victim.
SO WHAT?? The victim could even be a prostitute,she could even walk naked on the road but that does not give anybody the right to rape her.So stop questioning the character of the victim...
Hang the criminals/rapists instead.... give them the punishment they deserve instead of the accusing the victim.
The Real Condition of Indian Women
India is probably a free country for its men but its definitely not a free country for women.Women in India are not discriminated against by the society they are discriminated in their own homes.Yes, India is a beautiful country and i think hindusium is probably the only religion that worships a female goddess (there might be other religions too that i'm not aware of).But there is also a practice in many hindu homes that i really hate. A woman,when menstruating, is not allowed to go to the temples and touch holy books etc. In some homes women don't even enter the kitchen during those days.I seriously think this is humiliating to me as a women. I mean it was god who created me and it was god who GIFTED me with periods.And if i we to be "impure" during my periods then why would god create such a thing in the first place.Many many households also prefer a boy child to a girl and a family is often considered incomplete without a boy child.Why? would you please tell me what is there in a boy that is not there in a girl except probably that fact that a boy is physically stronger which most just use to rape women.
When a women is raped she is looked down upon by the society . Most of them blame the girl saying she must have tried to get the boy's attention and instigate him.Well there is case of a women who was raped at the age of 16 by about 42 men.That women is now 32 and the accused still roam free.The society and her neighbors avoid talking to her family.Her dad said that they prefer to stay indoors and the people don't talk to them and look at them differently.I don't know if you (the girl-rape survivor) is reading this but if you are my hats off to you.It takes great courage to be go through what you have gone through and still be strong.
The recent Delhi rape case in which the girl was raped in a moving bus and an actual iron rod was inserted in her vagina. Her was raped , striped and then thrown out of the bus and left to die.She was taken to the hospital but then she couldn't survive.Some call her Damini and some India's brave heart.Either way she is a real fighter.Although she may not be with us anymore she has opened the eyes of today's youth.I'm glad and i believe she might be too to see the whole of India's youth asking for justice and stronger rape laws.
I hope the laws get implemented. I hope women in India get the status they deserve . Let there not be a women who thinks that she was cursed and therefore born a women. Let us all be happy to be a women , let men respect women and may every woman receive justice in the eyes of law, in the eyes of god.
When a women is raped she is looked down upon by the society . Most of them blame the girl saying she must have tried to get the boy's attention and instigate him.Well there is case of a women who was raped at the age of 16 by about 42 men.That women is now 32 and the accused still roam free.The society and her neighbors avoid talking to her family.Her dad said that they prefer to stay indoors and the people don't talk to them and look at them differently.I don't know if you (the girl-rape survivor) is reading this but if you are my hats off to you.It takes great courage to be go through what you have gone through and still be strong.
The recent Delhi rape case in which the girl was raped in a moving bus and an actual iron rod was inserted in her vagina. Her was raped , striped and then thrown out of the bus and left to die.She was taken to the hospital but then she couldn't survive.Some call her Damini and some India's brave heart.Either way she is a real fighter.Although she may not be with us anymore she has opened the eyes of today's youth.I'm glad and i believe she might be too to see the whole of India's youth asking for justice and stronger rape laws.
I hope the laws get implemented. I hope women in India get the status they deserve . Let there not be a women who thinks that she was cursed and therefore born a women. Let us all be happy to be a women , let men respect women and may every woman receive justice in the eyes of law, in the eyes of god.
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